Saturday Kinda Love: Boosting Confidence and Esteem for People of the Global Majority



As BIPOC individuals, our journey to self-love and self-confidence can often feel like a marathon through an obstacle course. The challenges we face are unique, and they can weigh heavily on our self-esteem. However, every Saturday (or any day you choose), you have the power to reclaim your time, your energy, and your self-worth. Here’s how you can uplift yourself and others in the community through intentional acts of self-love.

Affirm Your Identity
Start your day by affirming who you are. Look in the mirror and speak words of power and positivity over yourself. Affirmations like "I am strong," "I am worthy of love," and "My voice matters" can help reinforce your self-worth. Remember, your identity as a BIPOC individual is a source of strength and beauty.

Celebrate Your Achievements
Reflect on your accomplishments, no matter how big or small. Whether it's completing a project at work, maintaining a healthy relationship, or simply making it through the week, celebrate it! Acknowledging your successes reinforces the idea that you are capable and resilient.

Connect with Your Community
Reach out to someone in your community. Share a positive message, offer support, or simply check in. Building connections with others who share your experiences can foster a sense of belonging and mutual upliftment. Remember, lifting others up also lifts you.

Engage in Self-Care Rituals
Take time to pamper yourself. Whether it's indulging in a skincare routine, taking a long bath, or practicing yoga, self-care rituals are a form of self-respect. They remind you that your well-being is a priority, not a luxury.

Consume Content that Reflects Your Worth
Spend time reading, watching, or listening to content that uplifts and represents you. Whether it’s a book by a BIPOC author, a podcast discussing issues close to your heart, or a movie with strong representation, let the media you consume validate your experiences and inspire your confidence.

Set Boundaries and Protect Your Energy

Know that it’s okay to say no to things that drain your energy. Setting boundaries is an act of self-love. By protecting your space, you create a sanctuary where you can grow and thrive without the pressure of external negativity.

Practice Gratitude
Take a moment to list things you’re grateful for. Gratitude shifts your focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant in your life. This practice not only boosts your mood but also reinforces the positive aspects of your identity and experiences.

Visualize Your Future Self
Spend time envisioning the person you aspire to be. Picture yourself confident, happy, and successful. Visualization is a powerful tool that can help align your actions with your aspirations, boosting your self-confidence in the process.

Engage in Creative Expression
Express yourself creatively through writing, art, music, or any other medium that resonates with you. Creativity is a form of liberation, allowing you to channel your emotions and experiences into something tangible and beautiful.

Remember: You Are Enough
Lastly, remind yourself that you are enough, just as you are. The world may try to tell you otherwise, but your worth isn’t defined by external standards. You are whole, deserving, and complete.

This Saturday, and every day, take time to nurture your self-love and confidence. As BIPOC individuals, we carry the legacy of resilience and brilliance. By practicing self-love, we honor our ancestors, uplift our communities, and pave the way for future generations to thrive.

You are powerful. You are worthy. You are loved.